Union within, we are both Divine Masculine and Feminine

It only takes one meeting to unlock the secret of our interconnected Universe. What makes it different from the other ones? He is my Twin Flame and reflects back to me part of my self that I had not yet discovered or forgotten. 

Day after day, longing became strength, sadness became power and you are no longer spectator of the natural flow of your life. 

You create it, by the power of knowing what is real and an illusion, recognising Unconditional Love everywhere you go and following pursuit of unlocking the doors of the true essence of your life : You.

This meeting wasn’t like love at the first sight, it was kind of magical and painful at the same time. Because I knew deep inside that this true moment of connection wouldn’t last. I knew at the moment that this person would leave anyway, because it is what I knew. 

This love was so pure, that he made me grow and reconnect to my true essence. Meeting your Twin Flame is meeting another part of yourself.I’ve always thought something was missing in my life, it was like an inner feeling following me everywhere. 

And when you do meet another part of you, believe me, you know. 

By exploring the love for this person, I also could connect to the Source and started downloading from what is truly being in Union within yourself. 

A soul is universal, it’s a light.

It does not answer to condition, restrictions or limits.

A soul comes into a body with a mission. And mine was to become in Union within myself by healing my divine feminine and masculine counterparts. 

Call it Yin and Yang or Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine it is the same. 

We have both sides, a Masculine and a Feminine. 

The masculine is the Sun and the Feminine is the Moon. 

What if I say to you it can take lifetimes to realise that we have to heal both parts? 

Sometimes, it takes a meeting, a journey or a random situation to unlock the path of this inner balance. The development of the Self can be truly dependent on the specific Soul Mission, but I truly believe that the Source wants us to be complete to be able to live a happy and truly authentic life. 

There are multiple studies that have been completed all across the world about the Development of the Self and the Post-Jungian Perspective of the subject underlines that the Feminine and the Masculine are two halves of the whole and this - got my attention. 

The Archetype Feminine : the psyche such as nurturance, interrelatedness, immersion in life and empathy.

The Archetype Masculine : the psyche such as autonomy, separateness, action.

Jung’s view on Women’s Individuation is explained through psyche gender lines. Women naturally have more of inner-feminine qualities as a Nurturer when Mens are naturally taking their position as a Provider. 

In my opinion, when the Masculine takes his natural position and provides a house to the Feminine, she will nurture it and transform it as a Home. 

Again, this is not about labelling any physical attributes and making a generality. For me, we are talking about Divine Inner Archetype through the Consciousness. 

Unfortunately, we have to fight against societal conditioning and a Woman would first be a feminine in the early period of unity of the primal self because her bodily conditioned identity is as a mother. Jung’s perspective shows that the Masculine side is awakened later and he might expect the Feminine to take her position in complementing him as a partner/wife by carrying her « natural societal » functions. 

This traditional formulation of women-development has become limited in post-modern times (see article Madonna/Whore complex). 

Therefore, one of the most important contributions of analytical psychology is the insight that both genders start life and living from the inner feminine (via the development of childhood) and that both must discover their inner masculine in their own way to find full individuation. But learning how to be a Human being applies to both sides, we naturally follow psychic abilities that belong to both sexes and cultures with a hope of freedom for those who do not know how to identify themselves yet. 

The difference between men and women requires further exploration when it comes to body and psyche. But when it comes to the Soul, do you believe that you always have been a woman ? Or a man ? 

Through my meditation process, I’ve mostly seen myself as a woman and one day as a man. And I’ve always grown up running after taking action, controlling and avoiding feelings. 

So I was in my inner masculine energy. Meeting my Twin Flame made me reflect the part of myself that I had forgotten to be : my Divine Feminine energy and let emotions flows instead of fighting them.

How and Why? 

This person was so pure and my Soul probably knew him already that I was naturally coming back to my truly and authentic self because I was feeling safe. The reflection of my emotional stage made him take his natural inner masculine psyche to show me protection, because he had space to do so - I let him by being emotionally balanced and instinctively - I was becoming sweet, emotional… so feminine. 

So after this meeting, and the consequences of what Love does to you - showing you everything, giving you everything and then leaving you with nothing. 

But this time, I stood up for myself and followed the path of healing my Divine Feminine. And I found beautiful treasures along the way. 

Women, are you aware how powerful we are when we tune into our energy? Our intuition? Our feelings? 

Men, are you aware of how powerful you can be when you take seriously your position as a provider because that is what the Source wants you to do? 

Our soul talks to us in many ways and now that I accept who I am, I am currently on the way to heal my Divine Masculine through action and offering my energy to help you become whole within yourself.

The Inner Masculine and Feminine need each other - when we are in good relationship within us, we feel like healthy whole human beings. 

When the Divine Masculine is healed, he has the energy that allows protection, discernment, healing and a sense of deep safety and holding. This can offer inner protection and stability so that the Divine Feminine can blossom with creative expression.

And you, which inner counterpart is calling for healing to become whole ?

Charlotte Pons.